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	<title>Comments on: I&#8217;m 40, Single and Living in Jakarta (part 3)</title>
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	<description>Moving Against the Grain in Jakarta, Indonesia</description>
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		<title>By: parvita</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-2120</link>
		<dc:creator>parvita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 06:34:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Diko:  thanks for stopping by and giving some comments.   Makes me read what I wrote 8 months ago.  As far as it is going, life has its ups and down.  Why feel stuck and regret, here we are!  There are still so many years in front of us to fill in.  

The greatest thing of being 40, for me, is nobody is lecturing me anymore.  I&#039;m considered, &quot;She&#039;s already 40, she must know it by now&quot;.  Nobody is able to make me do what I don&#039;t want to do.  

Take it easy and take care of your health.  Remember, you can&#039;t fight the nature and you are not as strong as when you were in your 30s.  Time to be discipline about healthcare, if you haven&#039;t.  

And...happy birthday!  Welcome to the club!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Diko:  thanks for stopping by and giving some comments.   Makes me read what I wrote 8 months ago.  As far as it is going, life has its ups and down.  Why feel stuck and regret, here we are!  There are still so many years in front of us to fill in.  </p>
<p>The greatest thing of being 40, for me, is nobody is lecturing me anymore.  I&#8217;m considered, &#8220;She&#8217;s already 40, she must know it by now&#8221;.  Nobody is able to make me do what I don&#8217;t want to do.  </p>
<p>Take it easy and take care of your health.  Remember, you can&#8217;t fight the nature and you are not as strong as when you were in your 30s.  Time to be discipline about healthcare, if you haven&#8217;t.  </p>
<p>And&#8230;happy birthday!  Welcome to the club!</p>
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		<title>By: Diko</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-2119</link>
		<dc:creator>Diko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 06:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, I came across your blog when I googled &quot;resolution for 40th birthday&quot;. Just want to know what other people think when they turn 40, and I am glad i stopped by your blog. Never read your blog before, but I think I will find times to read. I just got 40 today my self, and i don&#039;t know what to do apart from feeling stucked, not moving or growing as much as i wanted to be, Or simply curse my self of not able to read some signs earlier of when to move or do something different or push my self harder. I am a Leo, not sure what that means, but I guess I will just look down a bit, see what others below us. Thank God I am 40, not 29.
Cheers,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I came across your blog when I googled &#8220;resolution for 40th birthday&#8221;. Just want to know what other people think when they turn 40, and I am glad i stopped by your blog. Never read your blog before, but I think I will find times to read. I just got 40 today my self, and i don&#8217;t know what to do apart from feeling stucked, not moving or growing as much as i wanted to be, Or simply curse my self of not able to read some signs earlier of when to move or do something different or push my self harder. I am a Leo, not sure what that means, but I guess I will just look down a bit, see what others below us. Thank God I am 40, not 29.<br />
Cheers,</p>
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		<title>By: michella_private@yahoo.com</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-1859</link>
		<dc:creator>michella_private@yahoo.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 07:31:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy belated birthday :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy belated birthday <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: parvita</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-1527</link>
		<dc:creator>parvita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2007 14:56:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jennie:  very, very, very safe birthday.  At home, checking My Busy Brain and Facebook  :D   Beginilah Jomblo, hehehe!

@Lewi:  already posted the last one for this year about &lt;a href=&quot;http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/30/the-season-of-making-resolutions/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;resolution&lt;/a&gt;, per your request, Madam!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jennie:  very, very, very safe birthday.  At home, checking My Busy Brain and Facebook  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />    Beginilah Jomblo, hehehe!</p>
<p>@Lewi:  already posted the last one for this year about <a href="http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/30/the-season-of-making-resolutions/" rel="nofollow">resolution</a>, per your request, Madam!</p>
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		<title>By: Lewi Tanjung</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-1511</link>
		<dc:creator>Lewi Tanjung</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Dec 2007 14:02:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No more new posting mbak? Ayolah, you got to feed us.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No more new posting mbak? Ayolah, you got to feed us&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: Jennie</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-1503</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2007 18:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy &quot;belated&quot; Birthday wishes, Parvita. Have a safe New Year&#039;s Eve.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy &#8220;belated&#8221; Birthday wishes, Parvita. Have a safe New Year&#8217;s Eve.</p>
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		<title>By: Elyani</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-1502</link>
		<dc:creator>Elyani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2007 16:32:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s wishing you a HAPPY NEW YEAR, Parvita!  Will keep reading your blog with much anticipation and interest :)  (mana artikel barunya...:))</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s wishing you a HAPPY NEW YEAR, Parvita!  Will keep reading your blog with much anticipation and interest <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   (mana artikel barunya&#8230;:))</p>
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		<title>By: parvita</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-1494</link>
		<dc:creator>parvita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 23:57:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the birthday greetings!  Yup, they say things about Capricorns being ambitious, organized, predictable and structured and booooorrrrriiiiinnnnngggg....  :)  Halah, I don&#039;t really believe in horoscopes.

@Ecky:  Party?  Where is the party????</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the birthday greetings!  Yup, they say things about Capricorns being ambitious, organized, predictable and structured and booooorrrrriiiiinnnnngggg&#8230;.  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Halah, I don&#8217;t really believe in horoscopes.</p>
<p>@Ecky:  Party?  Where is the party????</p>
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		<title>By: tere616</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-1491</link>
		<dc:creator>tere616</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 17:45:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy Belated Birthday ..:-) ... Another capricorn from blogger. The nicest thing being older is finally we can be wiser than when we younger. And the most important thing .. I can &quot;read&quot; my daughter now same like my mom did it to me...:-P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy Belated Birthday ..:-) &#8230; Another capricorn from blogger. The nicest thing being older is finally we can be wiser than when we younger. And the most important thing .. I can &#8220;read&#8221; my daughter now same like my mom did it to me&#8230;:-P</p>
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		<title>By: Ecky</title>
		<link>http://parvita.wordpress.com/2007/12/23/im-40-single-and-living-in-jakarta-part-3/#comment-1487</link>
		<dc:creator>Ecky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 15:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Let&#039;s have some party!!!... Surely there is no age limit for party, right girl?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s have some party!!!&#8230; Surely there is no age limit for party, right girl?</p>
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